Nikko D'Ambrosio v. Abbigail Rajala Et Al 1-24-Cv-002000
Nikko D'Ambrosio v. Abbigail Rajala Et Al 1-24-Cv-002000
NIKKO D'AMBROSIO, )
Plaintiff, )
V. ) Case No.
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ABBfGAILRAJALA, )
RODNEYRAJALA, ) JURY TRIAL DEMANDED
CAROL RAJALA, )
SAM DANIELS, )
ALEXIS KYLE, ) CLASS ACTION CERTIFICTION REQUESTED
PAOLASANCHEZ, ) PURSUANT TO RULE 23
CORALINELOTZ, )
DIANNEWESLEY, )
MADISONPIERCE, )
MADISONBYNUM, )
VANESSAVILLATORO, }
CHRISTYGRAESSLE, )
SHARLEENWM, )
KAJTLYNMISHAYMOODY, )
LINDAJUAREZ, )
AMBER MfCHELLE, )
LAURAMADDOX, )
ALINADRAKE, )
CHAND!CONSTANCE, )
ALICIAANN, )
SALISHAP. DEEN, )
JILLlAN CARA, )
JEN RAHBAR, )
SHANNONMARIE, )
LUISARESENDEZ, )
DARYLCEASER, )
USA MIKO, )
AMY DUKSTEIN-REYNOLDS, )
MELISSAPINKERTON, )
MONICATCHORZEWSKA, )
AWDTSG,INC., a DelawareCorporation, )
METAPLATFORMS,lNC., a DelawareCorporation, )
METAPLATFORMSTECHNOLOGIES,INC, a DelawareCorporation, )
FACEBOOKENTERTAfNMENT, LLC, a DelawareCorporation, )
FACEBOOKGLOBALHOLDINGSI, LLC, a Delaware:Corporation, )
FACEBOOKGLOBALHOLDlNGSI, INC., a DelawareCorporation, )
FACEBOOKGLOBALHOLDINGS11,LLC, a DelawareCorporation, )
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FACEBOOKMEDIA, LLC, a DelawareCorporation. )
FACEBOOKMIAMI, INC., a DelawareCorporation, )
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FACEBOOKSERVICES,INC., a DelawareCorporation,, )
FACEBOOKSHOP,INC., a DelawareCorporation, )
FACEBOOKCIRCULARITY,LLC, a DelawareCorporation, )
PATREON,INC., a DelawareCorporation, )
GOFUNDME,Inc., a DelawareCorporation, )
JANE DOE, UnnamedDefendancs, )
D,~fendants. )
COMPLAINT AT LAW
Now comes the Plaintiff, Nikko D' Ambrosio, by and through undersigned counsel, and
This is an action for declaratory and injunctive relief and for damages against Defendants
for false and defamatory statements made and published by Defendants concerning Plaintiff
under the Illinois Slander and Libel Act (740 ILCS 145), to protect Plaintiff's rights to be free
under the Illinois Civil Liability for Doxing Act (740 ILCS 195), Misappropriation under the
Illinois Right to Publicity Act (765 ILCS 1075), and common law causes of action.
PARTIES
1. The Plaintiff, Nikko D' Ambrosio is an adult male who resides in the territorial
2. The Defendant, Abbigail Rajala, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Michigan.
3. The Defendant, Rodney Rajala, is an adult male who resides in the State of
Michigan.
4. The Defendant, Carol Rajala, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Michigan.
at this time.
7. The Defendant, Paola Sanchez, is an adult female who resides in the State of New
York.
8. The Defendant, CoraliineLotz, is an adult female who resides in the State of New
York.
9. The Defendant, DianrneWesley, is an adult female who resides in the State of New
York.
10. The Defendant, Madison Pierce, is an adult female whose residence State is
11. The Defendant, Madison Bynum, is an adult female who resides in the State of
South Carolina.
12. The Defendant, Vanessa Villatoro, is an adult female whose residence State is
13. The Defendant, Chris1tieGraessle, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Indiana.
14. The Defendant, Sharleen Waa, is an adult female whose residence State is
15. The Defendant, Kaitlyn Mishay Moody, is an adult female who resides in the
State of Texas.
16. The Defendant, Linda. Juarez, is an adult female who resides in the State of Texas.
17. The Defendant, Alina Drake, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Florida.
18. The Defendant, Chandi Constance, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Pennsy 1vania.
19. The Defendant, Alicia Ann, is an adult female whose residence State is unknown
at this time ..
20. The Defendant, Salisha P. Deen, is an adult female who resides in the Sta1teof
New York.
21. The Defendant, Jillian Cara, is an adult female who resides in the State of Ohio.
22. The Defendant, Jen Rahbar, is an adult female who resides in the State of
California.
23. The Defendant, Shannon Marie, is an adult female whose residence State is
24. The Defendant, Luisa Resendez, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Florida.
25. The Defendant, Daryl Ceaser, is an adult female who resides in the State ,of
Illinois.
26. The Defendant, Lisa Miko, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Michigan.
27. The Defendant, Amy Dukstein-Reynolds, is an adult female who resides :inthe
State of Illinois.
28. The Defendant, Melissa Pinkerton, is an adult female who resides in the State of
Illinois.
29. The Defendant, Monica Tchorzewska, is an adult female who resides in the State
of Illinois.
business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media networks described
30. The Defendant, Meta Platforms, Inc, is a corporation registered and authorized to
do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media network known as
Facebook.com.
31. The Defendant, Meta Platforms Technologies, Inc, is a corporation registered and
authorized to do business in the State:of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State: of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
33. The Defendant, Facebook Global Holdings I, LLC, is a corporation registered and
authorized to do business in the State:of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
35. The Defendant, Facebook Global Holdings II, LLC, is a corporation registered
and authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operated the social media
36. The Defendant, Facebook Global Holdings III, LLC, is a corporation registered
and authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
and authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social medlia
43. The Defendant, Facebook Investor Group, LLC, is a corporation registered and
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
business inithe State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media network kno"'m as
Facebook.com.
45. The Defendant, Facebook Media, LLC, is a corporation registered and authorized
to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media network known
as Facebook.com.
46. The Defendant, Facebook Miami, LLC, is a corporation registered and authorized
to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media network known
as Facebook.com.
authorized! to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the sociaJ media
authorized to do business in the State:of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
authorized to do business in the State:of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
50. The Defendant, Facebook Shop, LLC, is a corporation registered and authorized
to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media network known
as Facebook.com.
authorized to do business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the social media
business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the crowdfunding platform known as
Patreon.com.
business in the State of Delaware and owns and operates the crowdfunding platform known as
Gofundme.com.
54. Plaintiff is unaware of the true names and capacities of several prospective
Defendants sued herein as Jane Doe, and therefore Plaintiff sues these Defendants by such
fictitious names. Plaintiff wi II amend this complaint to allege their true names and capacities
when ascertained. Plaintiff is informed and therefore alleges that each fictitiously named
Defendant is responsible in some manner for the occurrences alleged and Plaintiff's inju:ries as
JURISDICTION
parties to this action are citizens of different States and the amount in controversy exceeds
$75,000.00 ..
VENUE
This Court has jurisdiction over this action under 28 U .S .C. § 1391(b)(2) in that all or a
substantial part of the events or omissions giving rise to the claim occurred within this diistrict.
FACTS
55. "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" is a collection of social groups maintained on
various social media platforms throughout the internet by Defendants. Said platforms purport to
provide an anonymous platform for women to discuss and disparage men in their local
communities with which they have had allegedly unsatisfactory dating experiences. The
collection of online communities claims to have over 3,000,000 registered users. See Exhibit A.
56. "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" self-describes its community as "Red Flag
Awareness groups all across the country where women can empower each other and keep each
other safe from toxic men." The group pontificates to the world that they are doing the "[L]ord's
work" by maintaining a platform to permit women to anonymously dox, defame, and attack the
moral character of men they've met online and publishing same. See Exhibit A.
57. The "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" network of social platforms is divided into
several subgroups reflecting major metropolitan areas in the United States and Canada for the
purposes of organization. Each and every platform or subgroup carrying the "Are We Dating the
Same Guy?'" branding on any social media platform is operated by the same or a substantially
similar group of individuals to Defendants listed herein, inclusive of, without limitation:
AWDTSG, Inc. and has engaged in the creation, maintenance, publishing, and marketing of
officer, of a subgroup of "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" known as "Are We Dating the Same
Guy? I Chic:ago" (The "Chicago Subgroup") maintained on the social network Facebook. Said
subgroup contains over 80,000 members. As a result, each and every one of the listed individual
publishing, and marketing of said defamatory statements and personally identifiable information.
59. Some administrators digitally monetize the "Are We Dating the Same Guy"
Platform via Patreon, GoFundMe, and other crowdfunding platforms. See Exhibits A and D.
60. That the Chicago Subgroup publishes dozens of statements and narratives daily
from women who wish to provide personally identifiable information about a man in the
community with which they allege to have had a dating relationship. Thousands of men have
been potentially defamed by members of the groups via these online publications, and remain
entirely unaware of the attacks on their character as a result of the social media group's private
the Chicago Subgroup occurs. Women are permjtted to make statements, publish photographs,
defame, thneaten, harass, belittle, or otherwise attack men whom they allege to have engaged in a
dating relatiionship with void of any oversight and with total impuruty.
62. That in 2023, Plaintiff and Defendant Abbigail Rajala met orgarucally at 8t cultural
event in Chicago, Illinois and briefly commurucated with one another. Plaintiff and Defendant
Abbigail Rajala engaged in consensual sexual intercourse on the evening they first met. The
parties spent brief periods of time together on dates on a handful of occasions which were
63. That in November 2023, Defendant Abbigail Rajala published provably false and
"Are We Dating the Same Guy? I Chicago" Facebook group, knowing said statements to be false
and defamatory. Defendant Abbigail Rajala further published a photograph of Plaintiff. See
Exhibit B.
engage in content moderation, which involves the review and approval of member applications,
would have reviewed the false and defamatory statements made about Plaintiff and approved
66. That on or about December 15, 2023, Defendants were contacted by Plaintiff and
his attorneys demanding the removal of said false and defamatory statements.
Plaintiff, and republished same under an "Anonymous" handle on the "Are We Dating the Same
Guy? I Chicago" Facebook group in an effort to avoid the detection of her identity. See Exhibit C.
68. That the Chicago Subgroup, along with all other listed subgroups referenced
above, is maintained as an "invite-only" group on the Facebook platform intentionally and for
the sole purpose of preventing subjects of the Defendants' defamatory vitriol from becoming
remains in the Chicago Subgroup and continues to be republished and retransmitted to third
from posting the last names of the men they are seeking to defame, a search through the
Facebook search engine system within the relevant Facebook group for the full legal name of
Plaintiff or another victim will return their photographs and any publishments made by the
70. That Defendants Meta Platforms, Inc., Meta Platforms Technologies, Inc.,
Facebook Entertainment, LLC, Facebook Global Holdings I, LLC, Facebook Global Holdings I,
Inc., Facebook Global Holdings II, LLC, Facebook Global Holdings III, LLC, Facebook Media
Productions, LLC, Face book Operations, LLC, Facebook Procurement, LLC, Facebook Ad
Management, LLC, Facebook Holdilllgs, LLC, Facebook International, LLC, Facebook Investor
Group, LLC, Facebook, LLC, Facebook Media, LLC, Facebook Miami, Inc., Facebook
Overseas, Inc., Facebook Property, LLC, Facebook Services, Inc., Facebook Shop, Inc., and
Facebook Circularity, LLC (the "Meta Defendants") willfully and intentionally clisplayed and
continue to display advertising materials for the purpose of commercial profit on pages
displaying such defamatory content and/or intellectual property of Plaintiff without the consent
or permission of Plaintiff.
71. That Defendant Paola Sanchez has continually reiterated to members of the
private Facebook groups that members must "strongly consider the harm [they] might cause and
don't screenshot or share anything oUttsideof the group." The repetition of this statement is
demonstrative of Sanchez's, the individual Defendants', and AWDTSG, Inc. as a whole's
knowledge of the illegality of publishing such defamatory statements and publishing the
personally identifiable information of individual men within their platforms. The Defendants, by
limiting access to the group to approved members and taking action against any member who
provides notice to any victim of the publishing and dissemination of said defamatory statements
or personally identifiable informatiom, have demonstrated their intent and willingness to conspire
to conceal their illegal activities in order to ensure the continued commercial profitability of their
72. Plaintiff incorporates and realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
published a series of repetitive false and defamatory statements of fact about Plaintiff in a
manner that led and will continue to lead to the reasonably foreseeable publication and
74. The defamatory meaniings of Defendants' false statements and implied statements
of fact are apparent from the face of the publications, refer to Plaintiff by name, often are
accompanied by images of Plaintiff, and/or are understood to be written about the Plaintiff.
about Plaintiff are reasonably understood to state or imply that Plaintiff is dishonest, immoral
defamatory per se in that said statements have damaged Plaintiff in his trade, office, or
profession and in that they accuse the: Plaintiff of having engaged in sexual misconduct.
77. Each of the statements: published by Defendants are publicly available and was or
78. That Plaintiff is a private figure, but in any event each of these false statements
were published with actual malice, i.e., with knowledge of its falsity or with reckless djsregard as
79. Defendants acted with willful misconduct, malice, fraud, wantonness, oppression,
and/or entire want of care which would raise the presumption of conscious indifference to
reputation in the general public, in their professions, in their church communities, in their
81. As a direct and proxfrnate result of Defendants' conduct, Plaintiff has suffered and
will continue to suffer significant general, actual, consequential, and special damages including,
huriliation, mental anguish and suffering, emotional distress, stress, anxiety, lost earnings, and
other pecuniary loss. These harms are:ongoing and, if Defendants are not prevented from
continuing to repeat their defamatory statements about Plaintiff, those harms will continue.
COUNT TWO - INTENTIONAL INFLICTION OF EMOTIONAL DISTRESS
82. Plaintiff incorporates and realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
wanton, and intentional, and reflected a want of care which would raise the presumption of
Plaintiff, the encouragement of others: to scrutinize and disbelieve Plaintiff, and similar.
wrongful conduct is so outrageous in character and so extreme in degree that it is beyond all
civilized community. Defendants' carried out their defamatory statements with actual malice, as
they knew that the accusations they were making were false or otherwise published them with
85. As a direct and proximate cause of Defendants' conduct, Plaintiff has suffered and
will continue to suffer significant general, actual, consequential, and special damages including,
humiliation, mental anguish and suffeiring, emotional distress, stress, anxiety, lost earnings, and
other pecuniary loss. These harms are ongoing and, if Defendants are not prevented from
continuing to repeat their defamatory statements about Plaintiff, those harms will continue.
86. Plaintiff incorporates and realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
87. The defendants, as part of a campaign of harassment and abuse, broadcast
numerous outrageous lies about the plaintiffs that represented such major misrepresentations of
the plaintiff:s' character, history, activities or beliefs that serious offense may reasonably be
88. The false light in which the defendants' statements placed the plaintiffs would be
89. The defendants had knowledge that their statements were lies, or acted with
reckless disregard as to the falsity of their statements and the false light in which the plaintiffs
would be placed.
90. These false publications have caused the plaintiffs actual and substantial damages.
91. In light of their prior experience with similar sorts of reckless and false
statements, the defendants knew that their publications could cause the plaintiffs to suffer
92. The plaintiff is a private individual and is neither a public official nor publiic
figure.
93. The defendants broadcast their outrageous, cruel, and malicious lies about the
plaintiff with knowledge that the statements were false or with reckless disregard as whether or
94. The defendants combined to conduct their campaign of harassment and abuse,
97. Plaintiff incorporates a.nd realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
"An individual engages in the, act of <loxingwhen that individual intentionally publishes
another person's personally identifiable information without the consent of the person whose
(1) the information is published with the intent that it be used to harm or
harass the person whose information is published and with knowledge or reckless disregard that
the person whose information is published would be reasonably likely to suffer death, bodily
significant economic injury or emotional distress or to fear serious bodily injury or death of the
published the personally identifiable information of Plaintiff without his consent, namely his
name and photograph to an online group dedicated to the harassment and belittlement of men
I 00. That the Defendants published said information with knowledge and/or reickless
disregard to the fact that the publishing of defamatory statements to an online platform of over
80,000 individuals would cause Plaintiff to be reasonably likely to suffer significant injury
101. That as a direct and proximate cause of the Defendants actions, Plaintiff has
suffered damages by way of significant emotional distress, disruption to his life, and fear of
serious bod illyinjury at the hands of one of the group's thousands of unidentified members.
102. Plaintiff incorporates and realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
"A person may not use an individual's identify for commercial purposes during
the individual's lifetime without having obtained previous written consent from the appropriate
105. Upon information and belief, the Defendants published Plaintiff's identity for a
commercial purpose, including the crowdsourcing of funds and collection of monetary proceeds
from supporters of the "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Community (See Exhibits A and DJ.
106. That Defendants did not seek to obtain permission from Plaintiff before
107. That Defendants have never had authorization from Plaintiff to publish his
108. That as a direct and proximate cause of Defendants' conduct, Plaintiff has
suffered and will continue to suffer significant general, actual, consequential, and special
damages including, without limitatiolll, impairment of reputation and standing in the community,
personal humiliation, mental anguish and suffering, emotional distress, stress, anxiety, lost
earnings, and other pecuniary loss. Tl~eseharms are ongoing and, if Defendants are not prevented
from continuing to repeat their defamatory statements about Plaintiff, those harms will continue.
I 09. Plaintiff incorporates and realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
110. Defendants unjustly received benefits in the form of payments from supporters,
crowdfunding proceeds, and advertising revenue at Plaintiff's expense through their wrongful
conduct. Defendants continue to unjlllstly retain these benefits at Plaintiff's expense. It would be
unjust for Defendants to retain any value they obtained as a result of their wrongful conduct.
111. Plaintiff is entitled to full restitution of all amounts by which Defendants have
112. Plaintiff incorporates and realleges all preceding paragraphs as if fully set forth
herein.
intentionally published the Plaintiff's personal identity and likeness in addition to private facts
114. That the facts published by Defendant about Plaintiff would be highly offensive to
115. That as a direct and proximate cause of Defendants' conduct, Plaintiff has
suffered and will continue to suffer significant general, actual, consequential, and special
damages including, without limitation, impairment of reputation and standing in the community,
personal humiliation, mental anguish and suffering, emotional distress, stress, anxiety, lost
earnings, and other pecuniary loss. These harms are ongoing and, if Defendants are not prevented
from continuing to repeat their defamatory statements about Plaintiff, those harms will continue.
made or published, any further statements repeating any and all false claims that
E. Any such other and further relief this Court deems equitable and just.
Respectfully submitted,
'
Marc P. Tre
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# 6324928)
of Plaintiff's Attorneys
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I first started these groups to help solve some of the problems and dangers that me and my
friends were experiencing with dating. We hit on a winning formula, and have grown by
over 3.4 million members in just a year and a half. with over 600 moderators helping to run
the groups. So we've stumbled onto something a lot of women are struggling with and are
definitely onto something here ... but this hasn't come without some struggles.
You may hav,3 noticed weird things going on with the groups these last few days. What
happened was that 5 of our admin's accounts were abruptly deactivated all at once,
including my 15 year old personal account. We've also had 4 of our groups suddenly shut
down this wEiek.. and none of those groups ever had community guideline violations.
With over 3,444,900 women in 212 groups we operate across the world, the sudden
deactivation of all our admins has greatly disrupted our ability to keep them all safe. The
worst part is the anxiety that comes with never knowing when or why our volunteers will
suddenly be deactivated or a group will suddenly disappear.
These latest fiascos made me realize we need something better, and finally pushed me to
start prioritizing my time towards building a new ideal platform for the lord's work we are
doing here .. one with additional safety features such as screenshot logging, anonymous
commenting, and much more.
I believe tha·t the best way to keep women even safer Is to create a platform where we can
do everything we're doing in the groups, but with more specialized safety features and
control over sharing.
But I realize that we need more resources to bring it into existence while continuing to
operate and grow the current groups. I've started this GoFundMe to help raise as much of
the development and operational costs as we can
I humbly ask you to please consider donating to support us in our efforts to help keep even
more women safe
I guarantee that 100% of all money raised from this will go towards the design and
development of an app or any necessary help in running the groups. I absolutely promise
that 0% will go in my own pocket •
I sincerely appreciate all of the support you've continued to give us! You ladies seriously
mean the world to me! With your help we have a real opportunity to help dating get better
for women ,everywhere
- Paola•
P.P.S If anyone has any friends or family at Facebook that they could put me in touch with
to better understand things, please reach out to Dianne and let her kno,11
P.P.P.S.We have looked into other existing platforms such as Discord and Reddit. It would
be significcintly more time consuming to determine that every member joining the group
was for sure a real woman. and don't have the robust feature set we would want. It also still
doesn't let us fine tune features to fit our specific safety concerns
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I'm sorry that this isn't as detailed as I would have liked it to be, the deactivations
P.P.P.P.S.
all came so s~1ddenlyand I wasn't really planning on doing any1hing like this anytime soon.
Since first writing this, we have lost 6 groups totaling 251,800 members due to
P.P.P.P.P.S.
some overly r,astrictive FB moderation. I'm still fighting to try to get them back! But on a
good note, within the last month alone their replacements have already reached 62,500
members but this further reinforces the fact that we need another platform.
EDIT! Here's some more information I was able 10 write out to address common questions:
I was hoping to announce this when it was further along and when I had written out
something mc,re informative that gave away more without giving too much, but this has
pushed up the• timeline in having to post it, as the group could potentially disappear at any
moment without warning. I've been developing an app based off what I've learned in
growing these· groups. We've actually been able to find some great technical partners. It's
not often that a concept gets validated and refined by a preexisting user base of millions of
members, so that was very attractive in securing help.
If you're interested in giving a larger scale donation and having more details would be
necessary for you to do so, please OM Dianne with the details around what you're thinking
in terms of your investment, and in return I can happily provide you with more on the
concept, as w19IIas timetables, budgets, etc. It doesn't seem like a great idea to publicly
release all of that information, as there's already competition in the market, and competing
startups who may be able to use that information in their own plans. But I'm happy to share
more in the right circumstances
I know this willl take more than 50,000$. Any dollar previously given was reinvested. Even if
I said it was fo1,a coffee, I really just used it to cover paying others, design and development
costs, legal expenses and filings, etc. I also invested my own savings into this, and had a
small family and friends round.
I have had offers from institutional investors, and will leverage them if need be. But I wanted
to attempt this Go FundMe campaign as a way to not have to rely on investment capital so
early, and be able to keep more of the company in the hands of women •
Updates (1)
Hey everyone!! Some of you may have noticed already, but early last week I got my
account back • It only took a letter to the CA Attorney General. tickets submitted by
Meta employe,es who were ,n some of our groups, and over 2 weeks of stress to get it
back
That being said. I'm still going to start putting more of my time towards developing our
own app just in case shutdowns continue to happen!
Our current pl:an is to build it where it could function in a similar way to these groups
should they ever get taken down, but also serve as an extension for these groups for as
long as Facebook allows these groups to stay up essentially meaning that if you crosspost
and link betwe•en the two, it provides a way to comment anonymously, prevent
screenshots, and allow us better tracking on which users view content that later leaks. At
least that's the current plan
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Kathy Rose
$100 • 7 mos
Thanl~ you for all the meaningful work that you do to help keep women safe! •
Shamaly Valdez
$10 •• 9 mos
Thank you for having the safe space to share and look out for one another
Sara Ghattas
$50 " 9mos
ThanI<you for all that you do. It is a thankless job. As a woman who organizes
events as part of her side hustle, I wish I had folks understand how important you
are tc, our safety. Protect women!
Erin Cheever
$50 o 9 mos
The truth about the sickness in online dating culture must come out.
Angela Teasenfitz
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Stella, Guan
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Thank you so much for your effort, Paola. Please reach out if you need any design
help with the new platform.
Nicole Eckert
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Although lost access when the big crash happened. You guys brought light to a
situation and were a man wasted 5 years of my time. The women that
commented shared and had also dealt with him were so supportive and we are all
bonded. Doing the Lords... Read more
MANDY VERNIER
$25 • 10 mos
Women supporting women to protect women. Thank you for developing a safe
space for all of us trying to navigate the dating world. I'm sure your efforts have
saved alot of women from pain and hea1-tbreak.
Sarah Horrigan
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As a moderator ... a separate platform would be life changing! Thank you for all
you do Paola
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the 1flfof"'1ar on 3nd dor t evi:r le~hi!") know :hat he ,· as i:;ostt?dj-, any sort of group. 1ha: slip up
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one example of the things we re deal ng with: Ori~ man v ho :.rascosto?dabo1..tin lhe groL.p
created two fake profile: (having :;tolen his profile• pies from a gir on lnstagran1)1nan attempt to
get in. We caugrt and blocked both of tri?m at ,•Jhct- poi'.'lthe me-sS3geoevery rrode:'ato' of the
page threatening legal act1or in an attempt to gelt the pest tai<endown.
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roth ng 1· girls are leaking m·o out of the grcup an)l\-.ays
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