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TIPAN, CHRISTINE JADE D.

DEAR HOUR
10 – PASCAL

Never Grow Up
A reflection on the essay, “Making the Best and Most out of Adolescence” by Alliyah Jereza

“Oh, darlin', don't you ever grow up.” If there was one wish or message that

could relay the sentiments of growing up, no other saying could beat this line from

Taylor Swift’s song as she sends a song of love to every teenager whose ears are

open.

Whether it be an early morning with pancakes and milk, the first birthday

when we received our very first Barbie doll, the embarrassment from a silly thing we

did in kindergarten, the first time our hearts broke from the rejection of our crushes,

and the first time Cupid’s arrow struck our hearts, one thing can never be denied: our

teenage years are love letters to adolescence. In Alliyah Jereza’s essay tackling the

hardships and core values of teens, the most evident and greatest image formed is

that teenagers are ironic creatures bound to grow and lose control. Contrary to the

author’s title, “Making the Best and Most out of Adolescence," she instead,

surprisingly, focuses on shining light and opening the curtains to unveil the fears and

true feelings of being a teenager. With light shining upon something unseen, we

discover that teenagers are individuals who are everything and nothing all at

once.

“I wish I'd never grown up.” Girlhood and boyhood are definitely messy years

in our lives where we recognize new feelings and deal with ever-changing

circumstances. It is a chapter of imagination and dreams with sprinkles of existential

crises as we ponder our lives a decade from now. These years are similar to a vast

ocean, filled with unfamiliarity and fear. It is an endeavor where we can start with
ignited fire and full speed only to end up with a halt and with eyes full of tears.

However, it’s also a time when we learn that we’re alone, in a good way. These are

times when we cringe at our past and grieve over what we’ve lost but celebrate new

beginnings. It is a time to forgive ourselves for things we regret doing to our loved

ones, as we were so innocent and easily shaped by mischievous people. It’s a time

of saying farewell as we travel to another part of the world, far away from Dad’s

chicken adobo, only to pursue our greatest dreams so we can finally go to Paris.

Above all, it’s a stage of accepting that we can never control everything, as we’re not

gods, but we can only befriend what we hold dearly—our hearts.

With this, we can accept fear and allow it to be friends with courage, as there

is something else more important than fear, and that is the greatest truth we’ve ever

known. As the readers of the essay try to “make that little kid, who they put aside so

many times, proud," making the best out of adolescence is to simply go with the

waves of girlhood and boyhood. Thus, we must first grace forward by saying,

“Oh, darlin', it’s okay to grow up.”

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