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Never Grow Up Essay
Never Grow Up Essay
DEAR HOUR
10 – PASCAL
Never Grow Up
A reflection on the essay, “Making the Best and Most out of Adolescence” by Alliyah Jereza
“Oh, darlin', don't you ever grow up.” If there was one wish or message that
could relay the sentiments of growing up, no other saying could beat this line from
Taylor Swift’s song as she sends a song of love to every teenager whose ears are
open.
Whether it be an early morning with pancakes and milk, the first birthday
when we received our very first Barbie doll, the embarrassment from a silly thing we
did in kindergarten, the first time our hearts broke from the rejection of our crushes,
and the first time Cupid’s arrow struck our hearts, one thing can never be denied: our
teenage years are love letters to adolescence. In Alliyah Jereza’s essay tackling the
hardships and core values of teens, the most evident and greatest image formed is
that teenagers are ironic creatures bound to grow and lose control. Contrary to the
author’s title, “Making the Best and Most out of Adolescence," she instead,
surprisingly, focuses on shining light and opening the curtains to unveil the fears and
true feelings of being a teenager. With light shining upon something unseen, we
discover that teenagers are individuals who are everything and nothing all at
once.
“I wish I'd never grown up.” Girlhood and boyhood are definitely messy years
in our lives where we recognize new feelings and deal with ever-changing
crises as we ponder our lives a decade from now. These years are similar to a vast
ocean, filled with unfamiliarity and fear. It is an endeavor where we can start with
ignited fire and full speed only to end up with a halt and with eyes full of tears.
However, it’s also a time when we learn that we’re alone, in a good way. These are
times when we cringe at our past and grieve over what we’ve lost but celebrate new
beginnings. It is a time to forgive ourselves for things we regret doing to our loved
ones, as we were so innocent and easily shaped by mischievous people. It’s a time
of saying farewell as we travel to another part of the world, far away from Dad’s
chicken adobo, only to pursue our greatest dreams so we can finally go to Paris.
Above all, it’s a stage of accepting that we can never control everything, as we’re not
With this, we can accept fear and allow it to be friends with courage, as there
is something else more important than fear, and that is the greatest truth we’ve ever
known. As the readers of the essay try to “make that little kid, who they put aside so
many times, proud," making the best out of adolescence is to simply go with the
waves of girlhood and boyhood. Thus, we must first grace forward by saying,