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ANALYSIS

After having examined your “SELF” in its different stages,


• What are the similarities in all stages?
• What are the differences in my “SELF” across the three stages of
my life?
• What are the possible reasons for the differences
ABSTRACTION

What is the “SELF”?


According to Stevens , 1996
The Self, in contemporar y literature and even common sense, is
commonly defined by the following characteristics:” separate,self-
contained,independent , consistent,unitary, and private.”
• Separate- self is distinct from the others, unique and has its own
identity
• Self-contained and independent-because in itself it can exist. Its
distinctness allows it to be self-contained with its own thoughts,
characteristics, and volition
• Consistent- has its own personality that is enduring and therefore
can be expected to persist for quite some time
-it consistency allows it to be studied, described and
measured
-a particular self traits, characteristics and potentialities are
more or less the same
• Unitary – it is the center of all experiences and thoughts that
run through a certain person
• Private- each person sorts our information, feelings and
emotions, and thought processes with the self. The process is
never accessible to anyone but the self
Social Constructivist Perspective
-Understanding the vibrant relationship between the self and
external reality.
-Social constructivists argue that the self should not be seen as a
static entity that stays constant through and through. Rather , the
self has to be seen as something that is in unceasing flux, in a
constant struggle with external reality and is malleable in its dealing
with society.The self is truly multifaceted.
•DISCIPLINARIAN •STRICT
•STERN •PERFECTIONIST
•CARING •PATIENT

FATHER TEACHER

JOE

LECTOR HUSBAND

•RELIGIOUS •LOVING
•CALM •INTIMATE
•HELPFUL •TOUCHY
THE SELF AND CULTURE
According to French anthropologist Marcel Mauss:
Every self has two faces: personne and moi
Personne – refers to the social concepts of what it means to be who
he is
-has much to do with what it means to live in a particular institution,
a particular family, a particular religion, a particular nationality, and
how to behave given expectations and influences from others
Moi- refers to a person’s sense of who he is, his body and his basic
identity , his biological givenness.

(jaywalking/courting/tapat ko ,linis ko)


Language is another interesting aspect of social
constructivism.
Mahal Kita - I love You
Object specified In general

Mahal- means love and expensive in Filipino


Expensive-valuable
Love-valued
Love- came from the sanskrit “lubh”- desire
Desire-valuable

Mahal ko Siya-gender-neutral
THE SELF AND THE DEVELOPMENT
OF THE SOCIAL WORLD

MEAD AND VYGOSTSKY


-The way that human persons develop is with the use of language
acquisition and interaction with others. The way we process
information is normally a form of an internal dialogue in our head.
Those who deliberate about moral dilemmas undergo this internal
dialog.
“Should I do this or that?”
“But if I do this, it will be like this.”
“Don’t I want the other option?”
- And so cognitive and emotional development of a child is always a
mimicry of how it is done in the social world, in the external reality
where he is in.
- A child internalizes values, norms and practices and social
benefits and more through exposure to the internal dialogs and
social dialogs that will eventually become part of his individual
world.

- Role playing of children


- Children becoming what they watch
SELF IN FAMILIES

- Every child is born with certain givenness, disposition coming


from his parents’ genes and general conditions of life, the
impact of the family is still deemed as a given in understanding
the self.
- The kind of family we are born in, the resources available to us
(human, spiritual,economic ) and the kind of development that we
will have will certainly affect us.
- Every child internalizes and mimics the language and manners
of the rearing family.
GENDER AND THE SELF

- Gender is an important aspect of the self.


- Gender is one of those loci of the self that is subject to
alteration, change and development.
- People struggle to express, validate, and assert their gender
expression
- From the point-of-view of the social sciences and the self, it is
important to give one the leeway to find and live his identity
- Our gender partly determines how we see ourselves in the world.
- Oftentimes, society forces a particular identity unto us
depending on our sex and / or gender
- Gender has to be personally discovered and asserted and not be
dictated by culture and the society.

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