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Naomi Larsson Piñeda

Naomi is a freelance journalist

September 2024

  • Cartoon of naked man lying on telephoe

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘We have phone sex once a month – and it feels primal’

    Ellen and Santiago have a long-distance marriage, so stoke the flames of their relationship remotely

August 2024

  • cartoon of woman relaxing in bondage gear

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘Bondage sex is my way of meditating. It helps me destress’

  • Elle and Jay

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘After trying spanking, role-playing and bondage, we decided to go back to basics’

July 2024

  • Illustration of a naked man and woman kissing behind a giant flower

    This is how we do it around the world: a sex special
    ‘There is a sex crisis here. Couples stop having sex after kids’: This is how we do it in Japan

    Aoi and Jiro have regular intercourse – so how did they buck what seems to be a national trend?
  • Illustration of a couple kissing while inside a giant carton of popcorn

    This is how we do it around the world: a sex special
    ‘We fool around in semi-public places. You could be arrested or publicly shamed’: This is how we do it in Uganda

    Catherine and Daudi first met at school but fell for each other three years ago
  • Illustration of a naked man and woman dancing together. The man as a rose in his mouth

    This is how we do it around the world: a sex special
    ‘We’ve been together 33 years. I want sex once a week. He wishes it was three times a day’: This is how we do it in Chile

    Natalia and Juan Luís have been together for 33 years but are now noticing big differences in their sex drives

June 2024

  • Illustration of Mila and Oliver being catapulted

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘The threesomes are on hold while we try for a baby’

    Mila and Oliver’s bedroom activity was centred on exploring their fantasies, but trying to conceive means sex is now more about fertility than kink
  • Meredith on Harry's shoulders, both having fun

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘We were both anxious when we met, but our sex life is a lot of fun now’

    Harry wasn’t sure he’d love again after his wife died, and Meredith’s ex was ‘Victorian’ in bed, so finding each other has been a joy
  • Isla and Benjamin

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘Our open marriage has strengthened the sexual connection between us’

    Since they started sleeping with other people, Isla and Benjamin say their own relationship has become more passionate and engaged

May 2024

  • missionary position, from the feet

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘I want missionary every night – but I’m trying to be more adventurous’

    Alice says she’s boring sexually, so she and Elliot are trying to spice things up
  • Jasper and Ellen

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘We’ll put on our sex playlist and change the lights to purple. It ignites a fire inside us’

    After sexless marriages, Jasper and Ellen discovered what they’d been missing out on
  • cartoon of man holding woman in palm of his hand

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘I always thought a woman’s role was to please the man, but now I’m prioritising myself’

    A rocky patch in Ava and Logan’s marriage forced them to talk openly about their desires – and now they’re having their best sex ever

April 2024

  • Sean and Emily with their birth mother, Sara, outside her house in Santiago, Chile

    She was told her babies were dead. Instead they were sold abroad. What happened when she met them 40 years on?

    Four families torn apart by Chile’s illegal adoption scandal finally found each other decades later. They describe the emotional moment they met – and how they pieced together the lives they had spent apart
  • Sebastian and Teresa

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘Since having prostate cancer I can’t get an erection, but I still get just as much pleasure’

    With penetrative sex no longer an option, Sebastian and Teresa have found different ways to satisfy one other
  • Ben and Lena

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘I’m into meditation and I’m sensual – a therapist called me a horny monk’

    Ben is spiritual and Lena has always dreamed of having a tantric relationship. So it’s no surprise that their sex life is pretty Zen

March 2024

  • Amelia and Hugh

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘At 80, I’ve discovered a sexual energy I didn’t know I had’

  • An illustration of a happy couple squeezed into a canon with the fuse lit, against a bright orange background.

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘To stop sex getting boring, we’re trying to spice things up’

February 2024

  • cartoon of a couple embracing on a calendar

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘Keeping Fridays free for sex helps us get through our stressful weeks’

    Ava and Lucas’s stressful lives mean they have to carve out time for intimacy – even if it’s just for a quickie
  • Laura Büllesbach in snow

    Experience
    Experience: I sort the post in Antarctica

    I have the nicest commute. I pass seals on an iceberg and penguins
  • Delphine and Richard

    This is how we do it
    This is how we do it: ‘It doesn’t take much for me to feel horny – but she needs to be in the right frame of mind’

    Striking a balance between differing sex drives is tricky, but Delphine and Richard are more intimate than ever. Though he’d still like more sex …
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