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- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- The only “right time” to transition is whenever you want to.
- We’re here to explain the basics like “stud,” “femme,” and “girly pop masc.”
- How medical intervention helped one writer discover that comfortable bottoming was possible after all.
- Moving in together too soon is a queer canon event. Might as well make it count.
- “Now that the cat’s out of the bag, or Pandora’s box has been opened, I don’t want to put it back in.”
- Trans advocacy groups have pledged to continue challenging the restriction.
- The injections were 100% effective in a trial of over 5,000 women in South Africa and Uganda.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- You’ve likely seen them at Pride, your local queer bar, or Pittsburgh, but queer pups are everywhere!
- Scissoring and tribbing often get conflated, but the latter is an expansive umbrella term of pleasure.
- These are the tips and tricks I wish someone had shared with me when I came out.
- The coming weeks are going to be a lot. Read our queer Leo Season horoscope.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Send this article to your uncle. He’ll get to practice while you relax.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Queer sexperts share tips and tricks for sitting on someone’s face.
- I'm an Angel Wings sun, Bonnaroo rising, and Lady Liberty moon.
- A bite-sized look at the ups and downs of the week ahead.
- Read on for answers to all your questions about watersports, or erotic acts involving urine.
- A new report about LGBTQ+ dating found an emerging interest in “slowmance.”
- From biting their lips to being cringey, “hey mamas” lesbians have taken over sapphic TikTok.
- From heavy petting to mutual masturbation to oral sex, outercourse opens up infinite avenues for pleasure.
- “Cis” isn’t a slur. It’s just an adjective.
- The beauty of butchness is that it’s expansive, and captures a certain je ne sais quoi only a butch can embody.
- Furries are just like anyone else, and nothing like what you’ll hear about on Fox News.
- “What a powerful force friendship is, that it can alchemize an emotion like heartbreak into something that makes life feel as though it’s tinged with magic.”
- Trans folks, people of color, and multi-sexual people have lower perceived life expectancy, according to a new brief by The Trevor Project.
- Amid an onslaught of anti-LGBTQ+ legislation, these student organizations are more than just safe spaces.
- Steroids have been popular among gay men for decades. For some, they're life changing — but for others, they can be debilitating.
- Relationships between two disabled people can offer a profound level of mutual care and understanding.
- A European man has been in remission for 20 months after a stem cell treatment.
- The Executive Director of the LGBTQ+ civil rights organization National Black Justice Coalition sat down with Them to explain the ramifications of the decision.
- What is the history of nonbinary folks? What are the differences between genderqueer, gender fluid, and enby people? We’ve got you covered.
- Self-care should be a way to ground yourself, not empty your wallet.
- Like many pride banners, creating the many iterations of the lesbian pride flag has been a community effort.
- Taking steps to protect yourself and your community ahead of protesting is crucial.
- During an especially brutal year for LGBTQ+ rights, it's important to gather with community. Luckily, there's more ways to do so than ever before.
- At least one grifter is targeting trans people with ineffective and potentially dangerous supplements.
- Elly Belle explains how to handle anxiety, stress, and internalized homophobia after coming out.
- Ending any relationship is hard, let alone one with a therapist. Queer mental health experts explain how to know when it’s time.
- Them and Teen Vogue spoke to five organizers across the country about what they’ve learned, and what you need to know.
- When lawmakers, school administrators, and coaches won’t support trans kids, it’s up to us to stand up for their rights.
- After being bullied and closeted for so many years, I held my first queer love up to an impossible standard.
- Building queer community isn’t always a linear process. This week, columnist María Saldana tackles loneliness and queer friendship.
- Concerned that your voter ID doesn’t match your registration or you’ll be turned away? Read on.
- Sometimes, a firm hug, nourishing meal, and other wordless acts of kindness are what your partner needs most.
- Set to take effect on August 21, the new rules prevent trans adults from using Medicaid to pay for gender-affirming care.
- From how to use them to their surprising history, here are answers to your most common questions about gender-neutral pronouns.
- There’s plenty to be absolutely pissed about this year. What are you going to do about it?
- One-time donations and attending reactionary events won't cut it. Organizers say true allyship is about being consistent.
- From dunking your head in water to yoga, these expert recommendations can help calm you when you need it most.
- Social anxiety can make community building and queer nightlife feel overwhelming. Here are some tips to help.
- Sapphics explain what the gender-expansive word means to them.
- While keeping my transness a secret kept me safe, sharing my truth helped me see I was so much more than just a woman.
- These alcohol-free brands bring all the fun with none of the regrets.
- We're queer. We get to write our own rules. Consensual intimacy among friends can be one of them.
- Surviving breast cancer as a gender-nonconforming person of color brought me a unique kind of struggle — and surprising opportunities.
- People often assume I’m uber-masculine just because I’m a Dom. There's way more to me underneath the leather.
- As a gay, Black dancer living with HIV, being single during the pandemic helped me realize I was treating myself as a sexual object.
- “Even if ‘I’m neutral about my body!’ doesn’t seem like something to shout from the rooftops, that’s actually kind of the point: Body neutrality meets me where I am.”
- My eating disorder was the only thing that gave me control over my appearance, until I realized I was losing myself.
- If we call everything queer, then nothing will be.
- Cleaning up before anal sex can be tricky without the right tools. Luckily, there's one method that works wherever fine bottled water is sold.
- Through massage, breathwork, bodily awareness, and more, these techniques will help you decompress and unwind during these stressful times.
- Through interviews with over a dozen expert queer healers — including traditional psychologists, sex therapists, personal trainers, reiki masters and hypnotists — we’ve compiled a guide for self-care during these scary times.
- Over the past eight years, the once-daily pill has ushered in a sexual, social, and political revolution among those most at risk of HIV. This is the story of PrEP’s rise, who’s been left behind, and the ongoing effort to make HIV/AIDS history.
- Dating while intersex can be hard, with partners prone to misunderstand your body. My experiences have taught me how to accept my differences.
COMMUNITY
CULTURE
WHAT TO READ AND STREAM
Our favorite LGBTQ+ literature, music, and entertainment right now.
- The singer talks to Them about his explicit club-inspired EP Afters.
- The Grammy-winning artist opens up about her new album Night Reign and working with Tessa Thompson.
- In this excerpt from his memoir-in-essays, the author writes about the rules for life he learned in Berlin.
- Part guide, part personal narrative, the book busts shame-filled myths around gender and sexuality.
- The U.K. DJ talks with Them about the influence of Elliot Page, finding affirmation in the club, and making a music video with ‘Sex Education’ star Felix Mufti.
- The artist talks with Them about depression, learning the guitar, and the poignancy of autotune.
- “Cowboys Are Frequently Secretly Fond of Each Other” is a rousing queer ode.
- The Los Angeles-based duo talk with Them about the creative inspirations behind their debut album.
- The pop singer explains how she created her new album's raw sound, how she navigates the double-edged sword that is TikTok, and more.
- The reunited, Beth Ditto-fronted group talks with Them about their new album Real Power.
- “I don’t have to prove that I’m a rapper anymore.”
- The Overview author opens up about spiritual ecology, transness, and the climate crisis.
- The singer-songwriter has come full circle since her ‘American Idol’ elimination.
- It comes from Bugsy and Other Stories, a collection by Rafael Frumkin exploring neurodivergence, queerness, and sex on the margins.
- Amid the right wing’s push for book bans, there are more LGBTQ+ titles to read than ever.
- The author’s follow-up to We the Animals takes the reader on a surreal dive into the archive.
- In a new memoir, the Jeopardy! champion upends her trivia show persona.
- Jillian and Mariko Tamaki talk to Them about their new graphic novel collaboration.
- Our guide to the best LGBTQ+ films on Kanopy.
- From moving memoirs to haunting horror stories.
- Because thinking is overrated.
- For when you get sick of big-city women falling in love with small-town men.
- From One Day at a Time to Vida, make time for these must-sees.
- Them contributors hand-picked their favorite queer horror films.
- From Margarita with a Straw to the new Queer as Folk, some creators are finally getting it right.
- From nihilistic road trips to lesbian vengeance, this list has everything.
- If you liked Fire Island, you'll love this list.
- From Smiley Face to Priscilla, Queen of the Desert, get hazy with a queer classic.
- Good rom-coms are rare. Good queer rom-coms are even rarer.
- Bishakh Som’s Aspara Engine is an astonishing collection of stories that rewrite the past and recast the future as diverse and magical.