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“Old Age is Not for Sissies” Says 100-Year-Old Ruth Peterson
Activist/artist Ruth Peterson is a lively, thoughtful, engaging host – belying the stereotype we might have of someone turning 100 years old
“Old Age is Not for Sissies” Says 100-Year-Old Ruth Peterson
Barbara Simmons recently visited Ruth Peterson and tells the following story:
Ruth Peterson is a lively, thoughtful, engaging host – belying the stereotype we might
have of someone turning 100 years old. I arrive at Ruth’s apartment at the retirement
community of Pennswood Village to find her painting, a bright light shines over the
palette of colors.
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“Old age is not for sissies!” she says as she welcomes me to find a place to sit for our
visit, after giving me a big hug. (Ruth is a self-proclaimed hugger.)
Ruth was born on July 13, 1924 in Sheridan, Wyoming, the first state to give women
the right to vote. Her mother became one of the first women who voted in the United
States, and she kept a diary of this hard-fought right. Her mother was an activist and
part of a group that had a vision and mission of giving everyone who reaches the age
of 65 a bit of money so they could retire and let the next generation take over. She
went to the State Assembly with this message, wearing a pioneer dress with dollar bills
pinned to it.
Ruth, born into that activism, carried it into her life. As a mother of four children,
Ruth would take her children into the voting booth at their local fire department. Her
son still remembers that and he is very active canvasing to make sure people vote.
I ask a question we all want to understand about how one lives to be 100 with good
mental and physical health. Ruth lists a few things she believes contributed to her
longevity: square dancing has kept her balance and thinking on her feet; she sees a
chiropractor regularly, and she always has a project. “Keeping busy and having a
positive attitude helps! I believe in having an Attitude of Gratitude!”
Ruth’s legacy has been making sure everyone registers to vote. Whether she is at a
Quaker Meeting or greeting new residents at Pennswood Village, she gets them
registered to vote in Pennsylvania. If they are already registered, she makes sure their
kids or grandkids of college-age are registered. Of the 400 residents at Pennswood,
only 6 are not registered to vote.
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Ruth has lived at Pennswood Village for 30 years now, having moved there when she
and her beloved husband of 75 years, Charlie, were young enough to enjoy their
retirement.
I asked Ruth what wisdom she could share we navigate these divided and difficult
times we live in. “This election is the most important in my lifetime! We share a planet
with a lot of people who don’t really follow the details of selecting their leaders. Some
don’t feel this is important and if ‘I can’t vote for that one, then I won’t vote at all.’
The thing that is most important is your freedom, so vote with that in mind. You are
making a decision that will impact you for years to come. If you don’t vote at all, you
are helping elect someone, perhaps the wrong candidate.” Christian Nationalism is
something that worries Ruth, so she makes sure she talks to people about the
importance of voting for a leader that is kind, compassionate and knowledgeable –
and she is so grateful for the mail-in ballot!
I asked Ruth ‘what has been her guide or north star in life?’ The conversation focused
on her spiritual journey. She first attended Falls Friends Meeting, but then moved to
Hatboro where they attended a Baptist Church. She found that many ‘talked the talk,
but did not walk the walk.’ One day, she went down to Abington Friends Meeting,
entered through a side door and sat in the back. She had tears in her eyes as she felt
she found ‘home’. She and Charlie became members for 50 years, until she gave up
driving. She now attends Newtown Friends Meeting, where she can get a ride each
week.
For our last question, I wanted to know how Ruth ‘found her voice.’ “I discovered
who I was in therapy. Men had always been the important ones. I was raised in a man’s
culture.” She found her ‘wings’ and wanted to do something with it. Thus began a
new life of social activism combining her long-time commitment to getting out the
vote and walking the walk of Quaker values, the belief that there is the Divine light in
everyone. This belief has blessed so many who have been touched by her kindness.
Her life challenges all of us to seek to make a difference.
-Barbara Simmons