Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them Quotes

“Bitterness is like drinking rat poison and waiting for the rat to die.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“What makes a man's 80 year-old Irish uncle skip like a little boy? "Me Father is very fond of me!”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“A pastor struggled for years with sexual addiction, eventually becoming so despondent that hospitalized himself. He joined an inpatient group and was mostly silent as others shared.

When he decided not to come one day, the leader found he had fallen back into his addiction the previous night. Against every fiber of his instinct, he came back to the group. He shared how much he despised himself and his hypocritical behavior.

When he saw that others wept for him, the weight of the secret that piled on the shame was broken. As Ortberg puts it, the man was able to taste the grace he taught about.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“No matter how little money we have, no matter what rung we occupy on anybody’s corporate ladder of success, in the end what everybody discovers is that what matters is other people. Human beings who give themselves to relational greatness—who have friends they laugh with, cry with, learn with, fight with, dance with, live and love and grow old and die with—these are the human beings who lead magnificent lives.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“As frustrating as people can be, it’s hard to find a good substitute.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“Ever console or scold people hurt in human relationships that satisfaction comes from God alone? Stop. Adam's fellowship with God was perfect, and God Himself declared Adam needed other humans.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“we owe love to all people, but only to a proven friend are we to entrust “the secrets of the heart.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“There is a very important theological distinction between being a prophet and being a jerk. What burns deeply in the heart of a true prophet is not just anger but love.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“To accept people is to be for them. It is to recognize that it is a very good thing that these people are alive, and to long for the best for them. It does not, of course, mean to approve of everything they do. It means to continue to want what is best for their souls no matter what they do.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“I really only love God as much as I love the person I love the least. DOROTHY DAY You can safely assume you’ve created God in your own image when it turns out that God hates all the same people you do. ANNE LAMOTT”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them

“The first stage of forgiveness is the decision not to try to inflict a reciprocal amount of pain on everyone who has caused hurt. When I forgive you, I give up the right to hurt you back.”
― John Ortberg Jr., Everybody's Normal Till You Get to Know Them