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![Charles Dickens](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1387078070i/239579._UX200_CR0,46,200,200_.jpg)
“That was a memorable day to me, for it made great changes in me. But it is the same with any life. Imagine one selected day struck out of it, and think how different its course would have been. Pause you who read this, and think for a moment of the long chain of iron or gold, of thorns or flowers, that would never have bound you, but for the formation of the first link on one memorable day.”
― Great Expectations
― Great Expectations
![DeWitt: Loneliness leads to nothing good, only detachment. And sometimes the people who most need](https://images.gr-assets.com/quotes/1370949079p2/189791.jpg)
“DeWitt: Loneliness leads to nothing good, only detachment. And sometimes the people who most need to reach out are the people least capable of it.”
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![Ranata Suzuki](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1530880785i/16288605._UY200_CR0,0,200,200_.jpg)
“I miss that feeling of connection.
Knowing he was out there somewhere thinking about me at the same time I was thinking about him.”
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Knowing he was out there somewhere thinking about me at the same time I was thinking about him.”
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![Émile Durkheim](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1247131964i/32676._UX200_CR0,27,200,200_.jpg)
“Melancholy suicide. —This is connected with a general state of extreme depression and exaggerated sadness, causing the patient no longer to realize sanely the bonds which connect him with people and things about him. Pleasures no longer attract;”
― Suicide: A Study in Sociology
― Suicide: A Study in Sociology
![John Berger](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1480363764i/29919._UX200_CR0,45,200,200_.jpg)
“The relation between what we see and what we know is never settled. Each evening we see the sun set. We know that the earth is turning away from it. Yet the knowledge, the explanation, never quite fits the sight.”
― Ways of Seeing
― Ways of Seeing
![Shannon L. Alder](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1647739446i/1391130._UY200_CR33,0,200,200_.jpg)
“A woman or man of value doesn’t love you because of what he or she wants you to be or do for them. He or she loves you because your combined souls understand one another, complements each other, and make sense above any other person in this world. You each share a part of their soul's mirror and see each other’s light reflected in it clearly. You can easily speak from the heart and feel safe doing so. Both of you have been traveling a parallel road your entire life. Without each other's presence, you feel like an old friend or family member was lost. It bothers you, not because you have given it too much meaning, but because God did. This is the type of person you don't have to fight for because you can't get rid of them and your heart doesn't want them to leave anyways.”
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![Edward W. Said](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1518095868i/16770310._UX200_CR0,29,200,200_.jpg)
“No one today is purely one thing. Labels like Indian, or woman, or Muslim, or American are not more than starting-points, which if followed into actual experience for only a moment are quickly left behind. Imperialism consolidated the mixture of cultures and identities on a global scale. But its worst and most paradoxical gift was to allow people to believe that they were only, mainly, exclusively, white, or Black, or Western, or Oriental. Yet just as human beings make their own history, they also make their cultures and ethnic identities. No one can deny the persisting continuities of long traditions, sustained habitations, national languages, and cultural geographies, but there seems no reason except fear and prejudice to keep insisting on their separation and distinctiveness, as if that was all human life was about. Survival in fact is about the connections between things; in Eliot’s phrase, reality cannot be deprived of the “other echoes [that] inhabit the garden.” It is more rewarding - and more difficult - to think concretely and sympathetically, contrapuntally, about others than only about “us.” But this also means not trying to rule others, not trying to classify them or put them in hierarchies, above all, not constantly reiterating how “our” culture or country is number one (or not number one, for that matter).”
― Culture and Imperialism
― Culture and Imperialism
![Sarah Dessen](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1372181953i/2987._UX200_CR0,50,200,200_.jpg)
“If only you could really use a fail-proof system to know who was worth keeping and who needed to be thrown away. It would make it so much easier to move through the world, picking and choosing what connections to make, or whether to make any at all.”
― What Happened to Goodbye
― What Happened to Goodbye
![Shannon L. Alder](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1647739446i/1391130._UY200_CR33,0,200,200_.jpg)
“When you see people only as personalities, rather than souls with life missions to fulfill, you forever limit the growth and possibilities of what God has in store for another person.”
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![A.S. Byatt](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1388376297i/1169504._UY200_CR26,0,200,200_.jpg)
“Think of this - that the writer wrote alone, and the reader read alone, and they were alone with each other.”
― Possession
― Possession
![Erik Pevernagie](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1629325665i/14170911._UX200_CR0,18,200,200_.jpg)
“When our mental functioning is whittling away and our mind becomes a lame duck, perception does not form the context anymore and all connections on the social chessboard are conked out. Only patience and endurance may draw us out of the quagmire of numbness and allow us to tear open the cloudy screen that is hiding our points of ‘interest’ and ‘attention’, so long as we focus on the ‘singular moments’ and the ‘appealing details’ in our life. Awareness can help us shape a comprehensive picture for a functional future. ("Lost the global story.")”
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![David Brooks](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1714933119i/61556._UX200_CR0,25,200,200_.jpg)
“I’ve come to think that flourishing consists of putting yourself in situations in which you lose self-consciousness and become fused with other people, experiences, or tasks. It happens sometimes when you are lost in a hard challenge, or when an artist or a craftsman becomes one with the brush or the tool. It happens sometimes while you’re playing sports, or listening to music or lost in a story, or to some people when they feel enveloped by God’s love. And it happens most when we connect with other people. I’ve come to think that happiness isn’t really produced by conscious accomplishments. Happiness is a measure of how thickly the unconscious parts of our minds are intertwined with other people and with activities. Happiness is determined by how much information and affection flows through us covertly every day and year.”
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![Deborah Day](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1435259518i/1438286._UX200_CR0,50,200,200_.jpg)
“Connecting with those you know love, like and appreciate you restores the spirit and give you energy to keep moving forward in this life.”
― BE HAPPY NOW!
― BE HAPPY NOW!
![Simon Pegg](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1307736179i/2785820._UX200_CR0,0,200,200_.jpg)
“We might not know we are seeking people who best enrich our lives, but somehow on a deep subconscious level we absolutely are. Whether the bond is temporary or permanent, whether it succeeds or fails, fate is simply a configuration of choices that combine with others to shape the relationships that surround us. We cannot choose our family, but we can choose our friends, and we sometimes, before we even meet them.”
― Nerd Do Well
― Nerd Do Well
![W.G. Sebald](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1684398227i/6580622._UY200_CR37,0,200,200_.jpg)
“Unfortunately I am a completely impractical person, caught up in endless trains of thought. All of us are fantasists, ill-equipped for life, the children as much as myself. It seems to me sometimes that we never get used to being on this earth and life is just one great, ongoing, incomprehensible blunder.”
― The Rings of Saturn
― The Rings of Saturn
![Benjamin Alire Sáenz](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1386527200i/4841310._UX200_CR0,58,200,200_.jpg)
“See, I think there are roads that lead us to each other. But in my family, there were no roads - just underground tunnels. I think we all got lost in those underground tunnels. No, not lost. We just lived there.”
― Last Night I Sang to the Monster
― Last Night I Sang to the Monster
![Molly Arbuthnott](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1611603299i/18864169._UX200_CR0,25,200,200_.jpg)
“Peanut was a hamster. He was furry, had four legs, a big tummy and his favourite food was, you guessed it, peanuts”
― Peanut the Hamster
― Peanut the Hamster
![Meg Jay](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1389766526i/1038942._UX200_CR0,41,200,200_.jpg)
“It’s the people we hardly know, and not our closest friends, who will improve our lives most dramatically”
― The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter - And How to Make the Most of Them Now
― The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter - And How to Make the Most of Them Now
![Alain de Botton](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1189753902i/13199._UX200_CR0,44,200,200_.jpg)
“When does a job feel meaningful? Whenever it allows us to generate delight or reduce suffering in others. Though we are often taught to think of ourselves as inherently selfish, the longing to act meaningfully in our work seems just as stubborn a part of our make-up as our appetite for status or money. It is because we are meaning-focused animals rather than simply materialistic ones that we can reasonably contemplate surrendering security for a career helping to bring drinking water to rural Malawi or might quit a job in consumer goods for one in cardiac nursing, aware that when it comes to improving the human condition a well-controlled defibrillator has the edge over even the finest biscuit.
But we should be wary of restricting the idea of meaningful work too tightly, of focusing only on the doctors, the nuns of Kolkata or the Old Masters. There can be less exalted ways to contribute to the furtherance of the collective good....
....An endeavor endowed with meaning may appear meaningful only when it proceeds briskly in the hands of a restricted number of actors and therefore where particular workers can make an imaginative connection between what they have done with their working days and their impact upon others.”
― The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work
But we should be wary of restricting the idea of meaningful work too tightly, of focusing only on the doctors, the nuns of Kolkata or the Old Masters. There can be less exalted ways to contribute to the furtherance of the collective good....
....An endeavor endowed with meaning may appear meaningful only when it proceeds briskly in the hands of a restricted number of actors and therefore where particular workers can make an imaginative connection between what they have done with their working days and their impact upon others.”
― The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work
![Sonia Choquette](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1294960024i/8669.jpg)
“Remember that you’re intimately connected to everyone else in the world, so when you attack another person, you attack yourself.”
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![Wendell Berry](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1209652700i/8567._UX200_CR0,4,200,200_.jpg)
“Connection is health. And what our society does its best to disguise from us is how ordinary, how commonly attainable, health is. We lose our health - and create profitable diseases and dependences - by failing to see the direct connections between living and eating, eating and working, working and loving. In gardening, for instance, one works with the body to feed the body. The work, if it is knowledgeable, makes for excellent food. And it makes one hungry. The work thus makes eating both nourishing and joyful, not consumptive, and keeps the eater from getting fat and weak. This is health, wholeness, a source of delight. (pg.132, The Body and the Earth)”
― The Art of the Commonplace: The Agrarian Essays
― The Art of the Commonplace: The Agrarian Essays
![Raoul Davis Jr.](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1518423328i/16336363._UX200_CR0,0,200,200_.jpg)
“Introspection is a form of self-management. You reflect. You decide. You change. You allow yourself to grow.”
― Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life
― Firestarters: How Innovators, Instigators, and Initiators Can Inspire You to Ignite Your Own Life
![Elena Ferrante](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1635020942i/44085._UX200_CR0,0,200,200_.jpg)
“I liked to discover connections like that, especially if they concerned Lila. I traced lines between moments and events distant from one another, I established convergences and divergences. In that period it became a daily exercise: the better off I had been in Ischia, the worse off Lila had been in the desolation of the neighborhood; the more I had suffered upon leaving the island, the happier she had become. It was as if, because of an evil spell, the joy or sorrow of one required the sorrow or joy of the other; even our physical aspect, it seemed to me, shared in that swing.”
― My Brilliant Friend
― My Brilliant Friend
![Katie Kacvinsky](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1303113462i/4143266._UX200_CR0,33,200,200_.jpg)
“Think about our bodies. We're a chain of veins and organs and tehy're all interconnected. If something isn't going right in one area, the whole system can get out of whack. That's teh way I see the world. We're all connected. I don't see myself as this separate entity. I see things in a much larger scale. Everything I do directly affects another person, all the way down the chain. Every person I help can help another; we're all connected. Change happens one person at a time. And I want to commit my life to seeing that through.”
― Awaken
― Awaken
![Shannon L. Alder](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1647739446i/1391130._UY200_CR33,0,200,200_.jpg)
“Sometimes, a person isn’t looking to increase their lifestyle, status or ego when they fall in love. Sometimes, they just want that special someone that is just like them. The one person that truly understands how they suffer because they have gone through it too. They want to wake up beside someone that knows their trials intimately. They want a teammate that doesn’t say they get it, but someone who knows it, lived it and survived it. They have been looking for that person their entire life because they feel alone and misunderstood. They are tired of people telling them not to care about other people, when that is not who God designed them to be. The depth of their soul can’t be reached by their partner standing at the top looking down. They want to come home to their “own kind”--the person that has run the same dark corridors they have traveled in their mind. They want to build a life with someone that would never break their heart, push them away or give up on them. They don’t want the person that has to win. They want the rescuer that has been to the fearful boundaries of their heart, but knows the way back to life. When they meet this person they will never forget them because they will come into their life with all the fire they possess and never leave their soul.”
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![Simone Collins](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1517983676i/17681868._UX200_CR0,0,200,200_.jpg)
“If Mike convinces a woman to date him because he is dominant, the resulting relationship will be entirely different than if he had inspired this same woman to date him by convincing her that, through dating him, she could improve herself (though such dynamics might be ameliorated through therapy).
One of the core reasons why people either end up in one bad relationship after another—or come to believe that all members of a certain gender have very constrained behavior patterns—is that they do not understand how different lures function (in male communities, this often manifests in the saying “AWALT,” which stands for “all women are like that”). These people do not realize that the lure they are using is creating those relationship dynamics and/or constrained behavior patterns.
Talking with individuals who say guys or girls always act like X or Y feels like talking to a fisherman who insists that all fish have whiskers. When you point out that all the lures in his tackle box are designed specifically to only catch catfish, he just turns and gives you a quizzical look saying, “what's your point?”
― The Pragmatist's Guide to Relationships: Ruthlessly Optimized Strategies for Dating, Sex, and Marriage
One of the core reasons why people either end up in one bad relationship after another—or come to believe that all members of a certain gender have very constrained behavior patterns—is that they do not understand how different lures function (in male communities, this often manifests in the saying “AWALT,” which stands for “all women are like that”). These people do not realize that the lure they are using is creating those relationship dynamics and/or constrained behavior patterns.
Talking with individuals who say guys or girls always act like X or Y feels like talking to a fisherman who insists that all fish have whiskers. When you point out that all the lures in his tackle box are designed specifically to only catch catfish, he just turns and gives you a quizzical look saying, “what's your point?”
― The Pragmatist's Guide to Relationships: Ruthlessly Optimized Strategies for Dating, Sex, and Marriage
![Runa Heilung](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1370533698i/7123032._UX200_CR0,0,200,200_.jpg)
“Networking is not about just connecting people. It’s about connecting people with people, people with ideas, and people with opportunities.”
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![Joseph Campbell](https://i.gr-assets.com/images/S/compressed.photo.goodreads.com/authors/1429114498i/20105._UX200_CR0,29,200,200_.jpg)
“Our actual ultimate root is in our humanity, not in our personal genealogy.”
― Myths to Live By
― Myths to Live By
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