EXCLUSIVE: Emily Ratajkowski reveals she has been secretly dating Harry Styles for TWO MONTHS and sweetly admits he's 'kind of great'
Emily Ratajkowski has revealed that she has secretly been dating Harry Styles for two months – and confessed that he may be 'the one'.
In a candid and wide-ranging chat about her love life, Emily, 31, let slip that she has been seeing Harry since early February and hopes their romance may be long-term.
Speaking on a podcast recorded on March 9, two weeks before she was spotted kissing Harry in Japan on March 25, she sweetly gushed over how 'great' he is.
Emily said: 'I just started dating someone that I think I like, so that is different. I was like, 'He's kind of great'.
'But if you had been talking to me four weeks ago, absolutely. I would be seeing someone and then suddenly the way he would walk would be like, ugh.
![Revelation: Weeks before she was spotted kissing Harry, Emily opened up about her two-month-long romance in a podcast released on March 9](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/04/04/08/69454079-11936631-Revelation_Emily_Ratajkowski_has_revealed_that_she_has_secretly_-a-67_1680595001914.jpg)
Revelation: Emily Ratajkowski has revealed that she has secretly been dating Harry Styles for two months – and confessed that he may be 'the one'
![Smooch: Emily was filmed passionately kissing Harry last week after a gig on the latest leg of his aptly named Love On Tour concerts](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/04/04/08/69454435-11936631-Smooch_Emily_was_filmed_passionately_kissing_Harry_last_week_aft-a-70_1680595130159.jpg)
Smooch: Emily was filmed passionately kissing Harry last week after a gig on the latest leg of his aptly named Love On Tour concerts
'What do I look for in a partner? I like someone that is very independent. I think, for me, that's very important because I do have a full life.
'I'm hoping that dating someone that has more of their own life will prevent the issues I had before.'
Emily was filmed passionately kissing Harry last week after a gig on the latest leg of his aptly named Love On Tour concerts.
In an exclusive video obtained by MailOnline, a passer-by caught them in a clinch as they took cover from the rain next to a silver people carrier.
The pop star was looking dapper in a shirt and dark suit while New York-based Emily seemed completely besotted as she held his hand and caressed his face.
Hours later, at around 6am, Harry was seen strolling through Tokyo reportedly with his 'former flame' Kiko Mizuhara, who is believed to be dating John Carroll Kirby.
In comments from before she was filmed kissing Harry, Emily admitted that getting caught on camera is a constant concern for both her and the people she is dating.
Since becoming single, she has been linked to comedian Pete Davidson and actor Brad Pitt. She was also spotted out on a Valentine's date with comedian Eric André, but later hinted on social media that the 'situationship' had ended.
Speaking on the Going Mental with Eileen Kelly podcast, she said: 'It's hard to avoid what people say online. I'll read stuff on Twitter or, when I am onset, people will say, 'I saw that thing'. It's hard to casually date.
![Romance: At the start of March, Emily revealed that she has been dating Harry since early February and confessed that he may be 'the one'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/04/04/09/69454723-11936631-image-a-81_1680595711983.jpg)
Romance: In a candid and wide-ranging chat about her love life, Emily, 31, let slip that she has been seeing Harry since early February and hopes their romance may be long-term
![Gushing: Speaking on a podcast two weeks before she was spotted kissing Harry, Emily said: 'I just started dating someone that I think I like, so that is different. I was like, "He's kind of great"](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/04/04/09/69373389-11936631-image-a-78_1680595495742.jpg)
Gushing: Speaking on a podcast two weeks before she was spotted kissing Harry, Emily said: 'I just started dating someone that I think I like, so that is different. I was like, 'He's kind of great'
'Every time I am photographed with someone – that's happened even when I've only seen them a couple of times.
'If you are dating multiple people at the same time, it's pretty brutal when they wake up and are like, 'I've only been seeing you for two days'.
'Not that I need to worry about them, but it made it very complicated and gave me a lot of anxiety.
'That part of it has been hard but otherwise it's been fun. I will be like, 'Sure, I'll go to dinner, why not?''
Harry and his girlfriend of two years, Olivia Wilde, 39, broke up in November last year. The pair met on the set of Don't Worry Darling.
It was reported in February that Harry had moved on from his ex-girlfriend Olivia Wilde with someone else, although the mystery lady was not identified.
A source told the Mirror at the time: 'Harry is seeing someone. He's going to great lengths to keep her identity quiet after the circus surrounding his relationship with Olivia.
'But his close circles all know about the romance. Though it's early days, things seem to be going well.'
Emily filed for divorce from her producer husband Sebastian Bear-McClard, the father of her two-year-old son Sylvester, in September.
Her ex has since been accused him of sexual misconduct by multiple women. He was accused of 'grooming' two teenage girls via Instagram before sleeping with them.
Speaking about what she looks for in a partner, Emily said: 'I'm attracted to masculinity, it drives me insane. If you want to psychoanalyse me, my dad was a hyper-masculine dude who was also a painter.
'I don't have daddy issues, I have a great relationship with my dad. But my idea of masculinity, from when I was very young, was this very traditional, plays sport and fixes everything around the house, but also makes art and is very vulnerable.
'And that is super hard to find. It has led me in some strange directions but yes, I am attracted to masculinity. I need an edge.
'You have to be funny, there has to be layers to you. I look for good-hearted people that are thoughtful and have good politics and are funny with similar interests.
![Passionate: In an exclusive video obtained by MailOnline, a passer-by caught Emily and Harry in a clinch as they took cover from the rain next to a silver people carrier](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/04/04/09/69454725-11936631-image-a-80_1680595710395.jpg)
Passionate: In an exclusive video obtained by MailOnline, a passer-by caught Emily and Harry in a clinch as they took cover from the rain next to a silver people carrier
'People have this idea of me being super feminine and I'm actually not. There's a traditional hetero game you play where you're the dainty little girl.
'I'm not like that but I don't know if I wear the pants. I'm dominant on some days and on others I want to be treated like a little baby and it depends on where I am at.
'I really want someone that is capable of taking care of me in the same way that I have taken care of people.'
Elsewhere on the podcast, Emily revealed that she had therapy to help her stop dating the wrong type of men before she met Harry.
She explained: 'I was drawn to a specific type of partner before I went to therapy. Now I feel I'm not as attracted to that same type of person.
'I don't like a lot of men. I don't go on dates if I'm not sure about them. I can get the ick. I've found that men – at least the guys that are attracted to me – always say they like superwoman, a woman that is successful and all these things.
'They say that is what they want. But when they are actually in the relationship, they start to get resentful.
'I will say, 'I thought that's what you liked about me, that I had this big life?' They get emasculated and resentful. That's been my experience across the board.
'I'm hoping that won't always be true.'
Speaking about splitting from her ex-husband last June, Emily said the stress of it caused her weight to plummet to 100 lbs - just over seven stone.
She explained: 'I got really skinny because I was not OK. I tried to take antidepressants because I was sure something was wrong with me.'
'From the moment we are born, women are taught to find a partner that completes you and we had just had a child so it was really hard for me to walk away,' she added.
'Having a child is a wild thing for your body. Everyone thought I bounced back quickly but I didn't feel that way. I did lose a tonne of weight but it was probably from stress.
'It didn't feel like my body. I think I'm just coming back to myself and it's a new body. There are things that are different post-baby.
'I'm embracing that. It's just not going to be the same. I was about 100 pounds after my break-up and now I'm 15 pounds up, which is a lot on my frame and it feels so nice to have an ass and a good relationship to food again.'
![Exes: Emily filed for divorce from her producer husband Sebastian Bear-McClard, the father of her two-year-old son Sylvester, in September](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/03/26/08/62249401-11902929-Union_end_Emily_Ratajkowski_filed_for_divorce_from_her_husband_o-a-4_1679815945036.jpg)
Split: Emily's passionate kiss with Harry comes after she filed for divorce from her film producer ex-husband Sebastian Bear-McClard (pictured in 2020) in September
![Exes: Harry and his girlfriend of two years, Olivia Wilde, 39, broke up in November last year after they found they had 'different priorities that are keeping them apart'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2023/04/04/09/69374393-11936631-image-a-79_1680595658492.jpg)
Exes: Harry and his girlfriend of two years, Olivia Wilde, 39, broke up in November last year. The pair met on the set of Don't Worry Darling
Emily and her ex-husband first split in summer 2022 amid accusations that Sebastian, 42, was a 'serial cheater'.
Meanwhile, Harry and actress Olivia, 39, went their separate ways in November after they found they had 'different priorities that are keeping them apart'.
Olivia was last seen supporting Harry when she attended his November 15 concert at LA's Kia Forum, where she was accompanied by her two children.
In November, it was claimed that Olivia was 'disappointed' that her relationship with Harry did not work out after nearly two years of dating.
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