Abbie Chatfield reveals why she is 'hating herself' and 'desperate for validation' - after 'hard launching' new boyfriend Adam Hyde
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Abbie Chatfield has admitted that she is 'hating herself' at the moment.
The former Bachelor star, 29, posted to her Instagram on Thursday to admit she was not feeling good and tried to cheer herself up by posting a sultry selfie.
'YET AGAIN I am shocked to find I am hating myself in the days leading up to my period!' she wrote in the caption.
'So here's a hot photo of me that I love, taken in the only place in LA that I liked, cropped because my t**s are out' Abbie continued.
'Desperate for validation while I wait for my next ovulation phase!' she added.
It comes after Abbie opened up about her plans to have children with her boyfriend Adam Hyde.
She revealed on her It's A Lot podcast, she recently got an IUD and Adam was considering having a vasectomy as the pair don't want to start a family anytime soon but are open to it in the future.
'So, I went to get an IUD because I don't want to get pregnant because I fear with Adam if I got pregnant, I probably would keep it and that would mean that our lives would change forever,' Abbie said.
![Abbie Chatfield (pictured) has admitted that she is 'hating herself' at the moment. 'YET AGAIN I am shocked to find I am hating myself in the days leading up to my period!' she wrote. 'Desperate for validation while I wait for my next ovulation phase!'](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/06/28/15/86700943-13580591-image-a-59_1719585690383.jpg)
Abbie Chatfield (pictured) has admitted that she is 'hating herself' at the moment. 'YET AGAIN I am shocked to find I am hating myself in the days leading up to my period!' she wrote. 'Desperate for validation while I wait for my next ovulation phase!'
She went on to say that she and Adam, the frontman of Australian band Peking Duk, are both financially ready for a child.
Abbie continued: 'If I get pregnant, we both have money, we are both old enough, we both own property. We're both like, fine.'
'There wouldn't be a reason to not, and we're both very in love and also, he's so emotionally mature and such an adult that he would be a good father.'
She admitted she had never thought about having a child until she met Adam.
'With Adam, I'd want to have his, I'd want to have his kids, like I cry all the time about wanting his children. And we both have amazing mums who would love us to have grandkids as well,' she said.
![It comes after Abbie opened up about her plans to have children with her boyfriend Adam Hyde (right)](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/06/28/15/86700939-13580591-image-a-60_1719585694970.jpg)
It comes after Abbie opened up about her plans to have children with her boyfriend Adam Hyde (right)
Abbie and Adam went public with their romance during a joint appearance on her It's A Lot podcast earlier this month after weeks of speculation from fans.
She revealed her new boyfriend's identity before opening up about their first date and 'crazy sex life'.
'I was so anxious, I was like, 'I don't know if I have enough things to talk to this person about'. But we had this really good date, and it was actually still the best date of my life,' she said of the first date.
Adam agreed, saying: 'It was incredible. It was like something out of a fairy tale.'
Abbie explained her crush on Adam only grew even more as they continued to spend time together.
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Abbie and Adam went public with their romance during a joint appearance on her It's A Lot podcast earlier this month after weeks of speculation from fans
'Then we had sex for the first time, and it was fine,' she said before revealing how things took a turn when they spent time together by the pool.
'We sat by the pool and drank margaritas... and the sex went crazy. We had sex and hung out the whole next day.'
Abbie said Adam makes her feel 'safe and calm all the time' and their relationship is 'so good and perfect'.
'Not only are we so in love, but we also have a really healthy relationship,' she added.
Abbie has previously spoken about being in open relationships, but told her fans that she and Adam are monogamous.
She explained she 'sobbed' to her therapist because she didn't feel 'strong enough' to be in an open relationship again.
'I was scared to tell you,' she confessed to Adam. 'Because I thought you were going to say that you wanted to be open, that you needed to be because you're a rock and roll DJ.
'I thought you were going to go, 'baby, I tour, you don't get it, I tour'.'
Adam then shared of their relationship: 'I think we're more monogamous than we originally thought.'